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This is one of the biggest hazards of casual sex. It can be a sign your actions are out of alignment with your true desires. I have no moral objections to consenting adults having as much sex as they like with whomever they choose. However, as a love coach, I work with many singles whose sex lives are in direct conflict with the relationship they're looking for.
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Of course there are no guarantees in romance. Casual sex is not the only pitfall. We all know that not all committed relationships work out, either. But without that commitment -- that mutual desire to try to make it last -- you are taking an even bigger chance with your happiness. I want Ephraim-WI no string attached sex live in a world where everyone who wants a committed, loving relationship has just Ephraim-WI no string attached sex.
When it comes to your sexual choices, be sure you are taking good care of your body, your heart Ephraim-WI no string attached sex your soul! Francesca is a love and lifestyle coach for singles.
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